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New Mom, Depression, Perfectionism? Why CBT Works

“Nobody’s perfect.” Everyone knows this, and everyone says it. You probably have used this simple phrase to soothe and support a lot of people. But you may not be as forgiving when it comes to yourself, especially as a new mom. All across the internet, you’re bombarded with images and stories of motherhood heaven. They’ve…

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Emotional Trauma: The Impact, PTSD, & How to Hea...

You or someone you know has been through something horrible. It was so bad that it left a lasting impression on you, and no matter how hard you try, it won’t leave you alone. Or, at least, that’s what it feels like. However, experiencing physical and emotional trauma is more common than we would like…

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Do I Need Therapy? Know When You NEED Counseling Serv...

If we are honest with ourselves, everyone could use a bit of therapy. Everyone has gone through something. You almost can’t be human without going through something. So, if you ask, “Do I need therapy?” overwhelmingly, the answer is yes.  Thinking back to your childhood, you can probably see that your parents and caregivers had…

Self-Talk, Positive or Negative: 9 Tips to Change, Im...

How do you speak to yourself? Inside, how do you address yourself? It’s a more important question than you may realize because self-talk, positive or negative, can change your life. If you take a walk through your local book store or scroll through your newsfeed, you’d find an abundance of posts about “positive attitude.” And…

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Toxic Positivity: What It Is & Why It Hurts

Toxic positivity; have you ever heard of it? It sound’s a lot like “Just look on the bright side” or “focus on the positive.” We’ve seen countless upbeat stories highlighting people who have stepped up and shone a light despite increasingly dark times. Take a few minutes on any social media platform and see if…

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13 Ways to Make Working From Home Easier That Your Th...

The most predictable thing about life is that, well…it’s unpredictable. You can be in a rhythm when, suddenly, you’re thrown a curveball and sent down a brand new path. Of course, it’s not just you. We’re all temporarily pushed out of our routines at one time or another. Change comes. Case in point: the COVID-19…

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How to Balance Work and Life – Therapist Approv...

It is rare that any functioning adult in 2021 doesn’t feel overwhelmed. With the world reopening, your schedule is out of control, you have less and less and less free time. You have no time or energy to do the things you want, and it’s probably because you have no idea how to balance life…

Psychotherapist vs. Counselor: What is the difference...

Table of Contents Learn more about what a psychotherapist does. What is therapy? What is counseling? What is a psychotherapist? What does a psychotherapist do? Learn more about psychotherapy. How long does psychotherapy take? What services do psychotherapists provide? How do therapists define what they do? Differences between psychotherapists, psychologists, and psychiatrists. Counselor vs. Therapist…

Why Depression Needs to be Talked About

Why Depression Needs to Be Talked About

Depression is a common mental disorder in people of all ages. Depression affects millions of people each year and has the potential to lead to severe health problems. It’s normal to feel sad from time to time, but if you’re consistently miserable and it affects your quality of life, you might have clinical depression. It’s…

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DBT 101: Dialectical Behavior Therapy Basics – What...

When you’ve been troubled by the same problems for years, and previous therapy hasn’t been very helpful, don’t give up hope. It might just be time to consider a new form of treatment. Dialectical behavioral therapy, or DBT, is a form of therapy developed by Dr. Marsha Linehan. If you’re not familiar with dialectical behavior…

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How to Achieve Emotional Intelligence & Get In T...

Each of us gets to experience our own inner world, making it impossible for outsiders to ever see things as we do. Simultaneously (and somewhat ironically), we cannot always see ourselves clearly.  For example, this explains why it sometimes takes someone else’s observation for us to identify our emotions. In moments like this, you might say…

racial trauma

We Need to Talk About Racial Trauma

To state the obvious: 2020 has been a year of much racial turmoil and reckoning, and we have all been introduced or reintroduced to a wide range of terms of concepts. Jarring, and debated among us, has been rhetoric, including “white supremacy, privilege, and fragility—opinions about systemic racism, critical race theory, and reconciliation swirl through…


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