Finally Get Unstuck From Your Past
- Are you struggling to recover from a traumatic experience such as an accident, disaster, assault or injury?
- Have you experienced abuse or neglect?
- Do you find it difficult to trust others, or feel fearful of rejection by others?
- Do you feel “on edge”, easily triggered, or “on alert”?
- Have you used substances such as alcohol, smoking, or food to soothe or numb your pain?
Trauma can have long lasting effects on all aspects of your life, whether you remember the trauma or not. You might experience medical complications, physical symptoms such as tension or difficulty sleeping, and emotional symptoms such as anxiety, panic attacks, fearfulness, depression or shame.
Avoiding situations that remind you of the trauma is common. You might numb or soothe yourself with food, alcohol, sex or other substances and may not even know why.
Eddins Counseling Group aims to make a difference in people’s lives through counseling, therapy and other treatments. One of these methods is EDMR Therapy, which is a powerful treatment approach used by a trained trauma therapist that can help you break free from trauma and its lasting symptoms. EMDR is also a highly effective therapy to treat PTSD.
What is EMDR Therapy?
Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) is a psychotherapy approach that has helped people relieve many types of psychological distress.
Substantial scientific research has established EMDR as effective for treating posttraumatic stress. It has also been effective in treating anxiety disorders such as phobias or panic disorder, disturbing memories, performance anxiety, trauma, stress reduction, complicated grief, sexual and/or physical abuse.
EMDR therapy heals trauma by teaching you skills to handle emotional distress and using stimulation such as eye movements and taps. EMDR can help release the hold trauma has in your body, relieve symptoms and help you regain your life.
Before beginning EMDR, your trauma therapist will teach you coping skills and strategies to feel safe and grounded, increase your resiliency, and help you learn to self-regulate your emotions.
Once you’re prepared, you’ll identify negative feelings and beliefs that you may have developed as a result of the trauma you experienced. For example, you may hold a belief that you are unlovable, experience disturbing thoughts or images, or feel uncomfortable physical sensations in your body.
The EMDR process helps you to release the impact of trauma from your mind and body so that you can feel stronger, safer, and more secure.
What is Trauma?
Many people experience some form of trauma in their life, some without recognizing their experience or symptoms as traumatic. Psychological trauma is the result of extraordinarily stressful events that shatter your sense of security and result in you feeling helpless, alone and vulnerable in a dangerous world. When we experience traumatic stress, it impacts our brains physiologically, which in turn impacts our behavior, mood, and physiology.
There are major events that most think of when hearing the word trauma: physical or sexual abuse, war, natural disaster. However, what is often overlooked is what is referred to as “little t” trauma.
The key in trauma is your experience and not the severity of the event. If you were a child, if it occurred by a caregiver, or how long the experience lasted can impact the severity of “little t” trauma for you personally. Examples of “little t” trauma include:
- Ongoing emotional abuse/neglect
- Being bullied or ridiculed
- Experiences of shame, being left out
- Feeling not cared for, rejected
- Sports or other physical injuries
- Loss or death of someone/something very close
- Car accident
- Childhood medical or developmental issues
How Do I Know if I Need EMDR Therapy?
You may experience Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) or you might just notice the following impact of painful experiences in your life. EMDR therapy can offer relief and healing from these symptoms and is an effective treatment for ptsd.
- Hypervigilance: feeling on alert to everything (and everyone) in your surroundings
- Upsetting or negative emotions
- Feeling “stuck” or “frozen”
- Feeling disconnected or numb
- Anxiety / panic attacks
- Unexplained medical complications
- Physical “tightness” in the muscles (clenched jaw, tight shoulders)
- Confusion, difficulty concentrating
- Feeling “unsafe”
- Withdrawing from others
- Anger, irritability, mood swings
- Obsessive thinking
- Intrusive thoughts/distressing memories/flashbacks
- Feeling “spaced out”
- Negative beliefs
- Chronic pain
Rather than struggling with these symptoms, EMDR therapy can help you process and let go of your traumatic experience. Letting go means having more energy for living your life with greater freedom and ease. It means letting go of fear, shame, restless nights, and building greater confidence.
Will I Have to Revisit Painful Memories or Experiences?
Many people who have experienced any form of trauma develop a very normal way of coping by blocking out or repressing particularly painful negative memories. Unfortunately, over time, these traumatic memories may rise to the surface in disturbing ways.
Or the impact of the experience may show up via symptoms such as the ones in the list above or in PTSD.
EMDR seeks to help you relieve the disturbance resulting from traumatic experiences. One way this is accomplished is by briefly recalling a vivid memory while engaging in EMDR processing via eye movements or taps. This process continues until there is no distress when recalling the memory.
You don’t have to discuss the details and it’s very important not to relive the experience. Your EMDR therapist will guide you through this process making sure you feel safe and secure throughout.
It’s not necessary to dig up buried memories to start the process of healing. Furthermore, the goal of EMDR therapy is to reduce the disturbance of painful memories. You will be guided safely through a process of healing at a pace that feels safe and comfortable for you.
It’s not necessary to have painful or buried memories for EMDR to be effective. You can also process current situations that cause emotional stress.
What if I Don’t Remember Any Specific Trauma?
You don’t need to recall a specific incident for EMDR to be effective. If you resonate with the symptoms of trauma, you can begin by exploring your history to identify a particular feeling that stands out to you the most.
From there, what needs to surface and process may emerge and your therapist will guide you through anything that might be stuck.
How Long Does EMDR Therapy Last?
Each person processes trauma in a different way. Initially, your therapist will guide you in building resources to prepare you for the EMDR phase of therapy. Once beginning the EMDR process, you may begin to notice shifts within 3-5 sessions.
Some clients achieve their goals within 8-12 sessions and for those with complex or developmental trauma, it may be longer. EMDR works best when used in conjunction with traditional therapy so you may want additional therapy sessions with a trauma therapist to process and integrate your experience.
How Does EMDR Therapy Work?
EMDR Treatment (Eye Movement Desensitization & Reprocessing Therapy) is a technique that allows the brain to process and let go of trauma or upsetting life experiences. What we know about trauma is that when a person is in distress, the brain is unable to process information as it does normally.
A disturbing experience or perception of negative experience can be recorded in the body and left “frozen in time.” The disturbing or upsetting experience is stored with all the thoughts, feelings, sensations, sights and sounds with it. This experience becomes “trapped” in the body’s nervous system since the brain is unable to process it.
It may not be remembered or suppressed from consciousness, but it still impacts emotional reactivity and emotional functioning through the body. This is why, for example, a soldier may jump when hearing a loud sound such as a car backfire. The sound is stored in the body along with the traumatic experience and the body is still responding as if it were in the traumatic situation.
Often we tend to develop negative beliefs about ourselves related to these disturbing experiences, which then impact how we see the world and relate to others. For example, if you were abused, you may at a deep level believe that you are unlovable and perceive frequent rejection in interpersonal relationships.
EMDR therapy works by unlocking these negative beliefs and feelings from the nervous system and allows the brain to process it fully.
Through EMDR therapy new insights or information may surface which allows you to become “unstuck” from the past experiences. Images, sounds, feelings and perceptions are remembered but the degree of stress and reactivity has been reduced.
How EMDR Therapy Works
From research with this particular form of psychotherapy, EMDR seems to have a direct effect on the way the brain processes information. The brain is no longer “frozen”.
So after an EMDR therapy session, you no longer relive a traumatic experience when it is brought to mind. You will remember what happened, but it is less upsetting. This is why it is so powerful in the treatment of PTSD.
PTSD Treatment with EMDR Can Help You Reclaim Your Life
Research has shown that EMDR effectively decreases the symptoms of post-traumatic stress for the majority of clients.
Your therapist may also use cognitive behavioral therapy as part of your PTSD treatment.
During therapy, emphasis will be placed first and foremost on creating a safe space for you and teaching you coping skills to regulate difficult emotions and ease your symptoms. You will go slowly through the process addressing your experience as you are ready. Your therapist will help you draw upon your strengths and resources as you process and release difficult information.
PTSD treatment with EMDR therapy can help your brain to process your experiences and move you to a safe state again. You will still recall the experiences, but with a reduction in the negative thoughts, feelings, and sensations.
Those thoughts and feelings may be replaced with positive new beliefs that can help you to “move past your past.” Your EMDR therapist can also help you assess whether other trauma therapies would also be beneficial for you.
EMDR for PTSD
Successful PTSD treatment requires a therapist who has a unique understanding of the nature of trauma and can use an approach sensitive to your emotions and past experiences.
We understand how to guide you through the process in a safe and effective way. We will also monitor your progress to ensure you feel comfortable and satisfied with the process.
If you identify with the symptoms of PTSD, EMDR therapy for PTSD is worth the investment in yourself. EMDR treatment can help you feel better, improve your relationships and feel more confident.
Depression can occur after experiencing traumatic stress or a prolonged period of stress.
Examples might include:
- Loss of a loved one, particularly in a difficult or traumatic way
- Job loss and unemployment
- Relationship problems
- Long-term illness such as cancer; injuries or developmental delays
- Living with someone with mental illness such as depression or alcoholism
- Experiencing a traumatic event
- Experiencing emotional, verbal, physical, or sexual abuse
- Bullying or teasing
- Negative childhood experiences
- Accidents or injuries
- Experiences of being shamed
- Living in poverty
Are Negative Thoughts and Feelings Weighing You Down?
After experiencing a disturbing event, negative thoughts and beliefs about the self can dominate. Generally, these are the feelings of not being good enough, not being safe, or not being in control. These beliefs of inadequacy, helplessness, or powerless can contribute to patterns of depression and impact most areas of your life.
Negative feelings can also become stuck leading you to experience the negative feelings in the present even though they’re connected to the past. These feelings can impact your view of current situations, which may feel “true”.
Negative sensations associated with those feelings also surface and you may try to “avoid” experiencing them. Over time, these experiences can build up and lead to depression. EMDR therapy for depression helps you to heal traumatic experiences from the past and change the beliefs you have about yourself.
How Does EMDR for Depression Work?
EMDR therapy for depression is most effective for people who have experienced some form of trauma or prolonged stress. Ultimately, depression is a symptom of the stress or trauma experienced. Thus, through EMDR, you are treating the root cause of the depression.
EMDR therapy for depression is one tool to help you overcome symptoms of depression. Depression is complicated. So you may also benefit from traditional talk therapy for depression such as cognitive behavioral therapy. Medication for depression may also be helpful depending on the severity of your symptoms.
What Can I Expect in an EMDR Treatment Session?
EMDR processing doesn’t begin in your first session. First, your therapist will obtain background and together you will set goals. You can expect an EMDR therapy session to consist of the follow steps:
1. Build Skills for Safety
First, your EMDR therapist will help you develop safety and resiliency skills. This ensures you can feel safe and grounded throughout the process.
2. Identify a Specific Problem Focus
Next, you’ll identify a specific problem as the focus of your session. This could be related to grief, stress, anger, disturbing memories or experiences, post-traumatic stress, etc.
3. Explore the Impact of the Trauma
You will then explore thoughts, beliefs, feelings and uncomfortable physical sensations you’ve developed as a result of that experience. For example, feeling on edge, self-esteem issues, images you hold in your mind, or beliefs such as “I’m worthless”.
4. Visit the Specific Traumatic Memory in a New Way
Your EMDR therapist will gently guide you to visit the specific traumatic memory, this time experiencing it in a new way. You don’t need to discuss anything specifically, just notice what is present including any body sensations.
5. Stimulate Both Sides of Your Brain Through Eye Movement, Touch, Light or Sensation
At the same time, your therapist will facilitate movement of your eyes right and left. Other right-left forms of stimulation may also be used. Such as holding buzzers that alternate vibrating in your right and left hands, tapping on your right and left leg or using a light bar. (This is referred to as “bilateral stimulation.”) This has your brain processing two things at once – the movement and the experience you just identified.
6. Continue this Process Until the Problem is Less Disturbing & Positive Beliefs are Formed
This process continues until the memory or specific problem becomes less disturbing and is associated with positive thoughts and beliefs about one’s self.
By combining the memory with the stimulation, the body is able to process and release the trauma stored in your body and develop new, positive beliefs.
Most people experience a great reduction in the level of disturbance of the problem or traumatic events. EMDR is most effective when used in conjunction with traditional therapy.
EMDR Treatment Can Help You Heal
“If we cut ourselves, unless there is an obstacle, we tend to heal. If we remove the block, the body goes back to healing.”
We have several EMDR practitioners available at our offices in Houston. Healing from trauma, PTSD, addictions or other major life stressors is possible. When you call, our Client Care Coordinators will find out more about your situation and match you with the best-fit EMDR therapist for your needs.