Finally Get Unstuck From Your Past
- Are you struggling to recover from a traumatic experience such as an accident, disaster, assault or injury?
- Have you experienced abuse or neglect?
- Do you find it difficult to trust others, or feel fearful of rejection by others?
- Do you feel “on edge”, easily triggered, or “on alert”?
- Have you used substances such as alcohol, smoking, or food to soothe or numb your pain?
Trauma can have long lasting effects on all aspects of your life, whether you remember the trauma or not. You might experience medical complications, physical symptoms such as tension or difficulty sleeping, and emotional symptoms such as anxiety, fearfulness, depression or shame. You may also find yourself avoiding situations that remind you of the trauma. You might numb or soothe yourself with food, alcohol, sex or other substances and may not even know why.
Eddins Counseling Group aims to make a difference in people’s lives through counseling, therapy and other treatments. One of these methods is EDMR Therapy, which is a powerful treatment approach that can help you break free from trauma and its lasting symptoms.
What is EMDR Therapy?
Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) is a psychotherapy approach that has helped people relieve many types of psychological distress. Substantial scientific research has established EMDR as effective for treating posttraumatic stress. It has also been effective in treating phobias, panic attacks, disturbing memories, performance anxiety, trauma, stress reduction, complicated grief, sexual and/or physical abuse. EMDR therapy heals trauma by teaching you skills to handle emotional distress and using stimulation such as eye movements and taps. EMDR can help release the hold trauma has in your body, relieve symptoms and help you regain your life.
Before beginning EMDR, your therapist will teach you coping skills and strategies to feel safe and grounded, increase your resiliency, and help you learn to self-regulate your emotions. Once you’re prepared, you’ll identify negative feelings and beliefs that you may have developed as a result of the trauma you experienced. For example, you may hold a belief that you are unlovable, experience disturbing thoughts or images, or feel uncomfortable physical sensations in your body. The EMDR process helps you to release the impact of trauma from your mind and body so that you can feel stronger, safer, and more secure.
What is Trauma?
Many people experience some form of trauma in their life, some without recognizing their experience or symptoms as traumatic. Psychological trauma is the result of extraordinarily stressful events that shatter your sense of security and result in you feeling helpless, alone and vulnerable in a dangerous world. When we experience traumatic stress, it impacts our brains physiologically, which in turn impacts our behavior, mood, and physiology.
There are major events that most think of when hearing the word trauma: physical or sexual abuse, war, natural disaster. However, what is often overlooked is what is referred to as “little t” trauma. The key in trauma is your experience and not the severity of the event. Factors such as whether or not you were a child, if it occurred by a caregiver, or how long the experience lasted can impact the severity of “little t” trauma for you personally. Examples of “little t” trauma include:
- Ongoing emotional abuse/neglect
- Being bullied or ridiculed
- Experiences of shame, being left out
- Feeling not cared for, rejected
- Sports or other physical injuries
- Loss or death of someone/something very close
- Car accident
- Childhood medical or developmental issues
How Do I Know if I Need EMDR Therapy?
You may experience PTSD (read more about PTSD symptoms here) or you might just notice the following impact of painful experiences in your life. EMDR therapy can offer relief and healing from these symptoms.
- Hypervigilance: feeling on alert to everything (and everyone) in your surroundings
- Upsetting emotions
- Feeling “stuck” or “frozen”
- Feeling disconnected or numb
- Anxiety / panic attacks
- Unexplained medical complications
- Physical “tightness” in the muscles (clenched jaw, tight shoulders)
- Confusion, difficulty concentrating
- Feeling “unsafe”
- Withdrawing from others
- Anger, irritability, mood swings
- Obsessive thinking
- Intrusive thoughts/memories/flashbacks
- Feeling “spaced out”
Rather than struggling with these symptoms, EMDR therapy can help you process and let go of your traumatic experience. Letting go means having more energy for living your life with greater freedom and ease. It means letting go of fear, shame, restless nights, and building greater confidence.
Will I Have to Revisit Painful Memories or Experiences?
Many people who have experienced any form of trauma develop a very normal way of coping by blocking out or repressing particularly painful memories. Unfortunately, over time, these memories may rise to the surface in disturbing ways. Or the impact of the experience may show up via symptoms such as the ones in the list above or in PTSD.
EMDR seeks to help you relieve the disturbance resulting from traumatic experiences. One way this is accomplished is by briefly recalling a vivid memory while engaging in EMDR processing via eye movements or taps. This process continues until there is no distress when recalling the memory. You don’t have to discuss the details and it’s very important not to relive the experience. Your EMDR therapist will guide you through this process making sure you feel safe and secure throughout.
It’s not necessary to dig up buried memories to start the process of healing. Furthermore, the goal of EMDR therapy is to reduce the disturbance of painful memories. You will be guided safely through a process of healing at a pace that feels safe and comfortable for you.
It’s not necessary to have painful or buried memories for EMDR to be effective. You can also process current situations that cause emotional stress.
What if I Don’t Remember Any Specific Trauma?
You don’t need to recall a specific incident for EMDR to be effective. If you resonate with the symptoms of trauma, you can begin by exploring your history to identify a particular feeling that stands out to you the most. From there, what needs to surface and process may emerge and your therapist will guide you through anything that might be stuck.
How Long Does EMDR Therapy Last?
Each person processes trauma in a different way. Initially, your therapist will guide you in building resources to prepare you for the EMDR phase of therapy. Once beginning the process, you may begin to notice shifts within 3-5 sessions. Some clients achieve their goals within 8-12 sessions and for those with complex or developmental trauma, it may be longer. EMDR works best when used in conjunction with traditional therapy so you may want additional therapy sessions to process and integrate your experience.
Meet Our EMDR Therapist
I specialize in working with adults experiencing anxiety, depression, chronic illness or pain, infertility, adoption issues, trauma and grief and loss. My approach is to focus on each individual with empathy, hope, honesty, and understanding. My goal is to create a warm, caring environment free of judgement or shame where you can share, heal, and grow while we work through your concerns together. I strongly believe that counseling is a collaborative process where the counselor and client work together as a team to develop and work toward your goals.