Is Your Marriage Struggling?

Counseling can help restore intimacy and connection.

  • Do you feel there is greater distance between you and your partner?
  • Are you struggling to figure out what to do after infidelity or an affair?
  • Are you having a hard time standing up for yourself or getting your needs met in your relationship?
  • Do frequent arguments, bickering, criticism or blaming have you feeling alone in your marriage?

Relationships can be a source of joy and support and can be a source of deep pain and loneliness. We crave connection and need to feel safe, wanted, needed, valued, appreciated in our intimate relationships. If you’re not feeling this way, marriage counseling can help you find new, effective ways to communicate with one another, increase trust, reduce arguing, understand each other’s needs and build a loving relationship.

Counseling Can Help You Communicate More Effectively

Do you find yourself in the same arguments with your spouse? Are you tired of the frustration, blame, or even shaming that occurs between you both? You might feel that you’re in a power struggle, back and forth until someone gives in. Whether it’s conversations about parenting, household chores, finances, or other concerns, it is common for couples to experience communication difficulties. After all, you’re both two separate people with your own backgrounds, beliefs and experiences.

“Working with Amber, we’ve learned tools to use during tough times to prevent arguments.”

Effective interpersonal communication is a skill. Through counseling with a marriage therapist, you can practice communication skills and get to the root of your repetitive arguments. Much of communication is about understanding how to communicate so that your partner can hear you in a way that builds connection. These skills can be practiced and learned – we can show you how.

Counseling Can Help You Rebuild After Infidelity or an Affair

Once trust has been broken in a relationship, it can be difficult to know how to move forward. Can you rebuild the trust and stay married? How do you sort out hurt feelings and move past this crisis? This is an important time to seek an outside perspective. It can be difficult to sort out hurt feelings and move forward without hurting each other further. A marriage therapist can help you find safe ways to express what is needed to each other and facilitate healing step by step. Trust doesn’t come quickly, but by following the healing process together it is possible to survive and rebuild your relationship with one another.

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Rebuild trust and safety in your relationship.

Working with a marriage counselor at Eddins Counseling Group in Houston, Texas can help you resolve the many questions you may be having about your relationship. You can understand why you’re both feeling the way that you are and understand each other’s perspective. It can feel scary to think of marriage counseling after infidelity for both partners. One partner might not want to be blamed while the other might not want to be reminded of the pain. However, by talking through it, recognizing and understanding each other’s feelings, you can overcome this painful time in your relationship. You can rebuild trust and safety in your relationship with a deeper sense of connection and commitment to one another.

Counseling Can Help You Feel Secure in Your Relationship

Perhaps you feel as if you’re not listened to, respected or taken for granted? You might feel as if you’re needs aren’t being met by your partner and maybe your partner feels the same way. You may experience a decrease or lack of intimacy in your relationship or simply not like the way intimacy or your sex life is expressed in your relationship. Or perhaps you’re feeling anxious about not knowing where you stand in your relationship.

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Rebuild closeness and connection with your partner.

Couples counseling is about learning to communicate and understand one another’s needs in a safe environment. Both of your perspectives and needs can be shared and heard in a neutral way. It can be difficult or scary to start these conversations. A marriage counselor can be your guide to help you both explore what is important to you and what you need to build connection with one another while learning practical skills on how to make it happen in a loving way.

How Does Marriage Counseling Work?

Marriage therapy is first and foremost about helping the couple. What this means is that no one person is to blame and while both perspectives are important, the emphasis and focus is on the relationship as a whole. Your marriage counselor has one objective and that is to help improve your relationship. Research shows that talk therapy combined with making some simple changes to the way you think and talk to each other can improve your marital satisfaction significantly.

We Hope to Help You:

  • Improve communication so that you feel heard and respected
  • Build trust and safety with one another
  • Have fun, play and enjoy time with one another
  • Resolve conflict easier and with less pain
  • Increase connection with one another
  • Deepen intimacy with each other and rekindle love
  • Understand your needs as well as your partner’s

When is the Right Time to Seek Therapy?

We like to recommend marriage counseling as a preventative step before distance builds between you both. It’s natural with any two people that you will have conflicts, communication difficulties, and frustration whether it’s spoken or not. Counseling is about interpersonal skill building, clarifying needs, creating understanding and establishing connection, safety and intimacy with your partner. From this standpoint, counseling is about learning skills before significant problems arise.

However, it’s never too late to work on your relationship, even after an affair. Researcher, Dr. John Gottman found that the average couple waits six years before seeking help for marriage problems. By this point, problems are often deeply ingrained patterns that can be much more difficult to work through. You can certainly improve your relationship at this point, but you might expect to spend a longer time working on skills and rebuilding your connection.

What if My Partner is Not Interested in Coming to Marriage Counseling?

We still recommend that you come to explore on your own how you can improve your relationship. It only takes one change in a system to make a significant impact – just like the pebble in a pond analogy. We start by helping you understand your needs and how to communicate more effectively with your partner, and we also help you see both perspectives so you can create new ways of interacting in your relationship.

Sometimes it can be useful for you to learn assertive communication or understand relationship patterns in your life. When you spend time learning how to be happier in your relationship, your relationship improves – without you trying so hard. Read more about our relationship counseling services.

You deserve love and connection. You deserve to be happy. And we’d be honored to help you find that intimacy and closeness again.

Eddins Counseling Group provides marriage counseling services to maintain, recover and strengthen your relationship with your partner. We can help restore the connection, communication, and intimacy in your marriage.

To Get Started with Counseling:

1. Please call us today at 832-209-2222 and talk to our staff who are there to hear your story and set up an appointment.

2. Contact us to find out more about our services in Houston.

3. Or if you are ready to get started right away, click here to schedule an appointment. Marriage counseling services are available evenings and Saturdays.

 

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